May 23, 2017

An attempt to fathom the ocean

An attempt to fathom the ocean : This is how I have applied facilitation skills to train my 10 months old puppy, Sophie. 

My dear Sophie
In past few years, I have learned few techniques of facilitation which i applied on people and humans i.e. termed as stakeholders. These days, I am putting my facilitation skills to train my 10 months old puppy, named 'Sophie' (Labrador retriever). She is one of intelligent breeds. 

After giving her only 10 days of training, she now responds when I ask questions with limited words and I prefer to use one language so that she doesn't get confused. She now involves and participates in all activities with me. She understands few commands which she was completely aloof prior to training i.e. Sit, get up, behave, down, yes, no, go, come, fetch etc.

I have her personal training charter where I make notes whenever she wants me to understand her unfleshed behavior. I then involve myself to research, to know what her unsaid queries are; only by understanding her posters which is nothing but sometimes her dysfunctional actions. 

I underline my thoughts before I start giving her training since she still has a puppy head. After looking around at several well mannered 6 months old puppies, I have started engaging myself more with her. She used to jump on people a lot and now she is my well behaved little pup who sometimes gets delirious with joy. Now, we are one happy team. I never knew it was so simple even to apply on my pet. 

After spending 100s of dollars on dog trainers, I brought myself on board to understand the problem first. She was not learning something advanced when out with trainers once a week. Then, I deviated her to understand the purpose of training by assigning her a daily time schedule. After personally giving her few regular days training she now comes to me on her own when she is ready to go out for a walk. 

Isn't it amazing. My 10 months old puppy now shows me one happy face after I engaged myself with her little more to sort out the problem. Two things I could do, either I always keep her indoors and inside the crate or I give her freedom to choose to walk anywhere at home by her own choice. I gave her the choice to walk and talk freely. And, being free she considers herself empowered to make her own choice and decisions. Now she has my full focus as both guardian and a guide. She understands the role very clearly and reacts in the same way. 

Yes, this was facilitation which I applied on my pet and it worked. 

Summary of what I did- 

  • Understand the problem well.
  • Deliver the purpose of doing facilitation. 
  • Use vague language
  • Comprehend the power of questioning right
  • Be always on time and maintain the time schedule 
  • Work as a team
  • Inform clearly
  • Be clear of your role 
  • Make charters and notes 
  • Manage dysfunctional behavior
  • Give focus
  • Let others feel empowered
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May 3, 2017

पुरानी यादें ....

(c) Jasmeet Kukreja

~This is all about the old house where perhaps many of you have spent your precious childhood~

Those closed doors of old street,
Scattered pieces of broken glass,
And sound that resonated from every corner of my old house,
remind me my precious childhood a lot!
-Jasmeet 💕

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He knew he was dying and started living life in the place where there was no light yet he did not bury his hopes in the shadow of darkness.

It was unfathomable to him that he decided to die in the dark even before the death arrives and closes the door of his life forever. 

For him darkness was his only hope to live final days. 

When she asked why does he stay in the dark? 

He replied-

"Yeah I am closer to death. 
I have been living all my life seeing the light through it,
And always feared from the dark colored death...
I was sleeping all nights thinking it is just the dark,
I never knew this is going to be my only final path...
I did not see the glory of the moon and 
the beauty of its stillness,
Now I wanna see beyond the light and feel the pretty darkness,
Each day I find myself now closer to life than death,
I will soon be shining as a star after I am out of breath....
Darkness is my only abode where this dark sky looks much prettier than before, 
And where I have chosen my own death without blinking with a fear anymore......."

She was nothing but his own soul who had no fear either for life or death. She was not only inside him but resides in each one of us. 

Never let her know that you are dying because she would then only say-
We all consider life as a light and the other side of it is only darkness of death. Isn't?

Do you fear from death ??

-Jasmeet 💕

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Apr 27, 2017


 ©Jasmeet Kukreja

Don't ask , from where do I bring this emotions, sayings and words,

I welcome you in my house of heart,
every corner will appear to say something!
(खाना-ए-दिल - House of heart)
-Jasmeet 💕

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Apr 23, 2017

नाराज चुप्पी

 ©Jasmeet Kukreja

(It's all about how sometimes silence gets furious on me to see the changes)

Yesterday, my friend "silence" got furious on me and said-
"You have been telling me that I am the only friend you have and now you have made so many friends by expressing your emotions in writing...."
Now, tell me how to expostulate my friend by being silent. 
-Jasmeet 💕

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Are you living or only existing?

 ©Jasmeet Kukreja

~Live or Exist~ 

"LIFE - Live it with full exuberance"

She is one crazy soul or you may call her "bindaas"(carefree). 
She knows how to spill her pain with ease. She is one blowing leaf in the wind.

We all know that tough time never remains, keeps coming and going.
What is left behind is how one handles and accepts when it comes with the full flow.

Every time she knew something terrible might happen, she was all ready to follow her heart. Because she believes in taking chances and risking it all. Her carefree heart causes a flame that ignites so many other beautiful minds and hearts.

She knows her real worth and what difference can she make with her existence. Yeah, she is one crazy soul who inspires many. Because she is the one who lives her life and not only exists in life.

If you have read this whole, you might relate yourself with her. Even the person like her lives inside all of us. Sometimes you just gotta give that hidden person a little nudge to wake you up. 
Remember, You can be the reason of many others to live. What I have learned in my life is to let all those go, who want distance and who cannot bear your existence. Be grateful for what you have and who all you have in your life. And you will end up having more. 

I read this somewhere that if you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never have enough.
So now decide, 
Do you actually live or only breathe to exist in life? I leave this open for you all.

-Jasmeet 💕

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एक छोटी सी मुलाकात

 ©Jasmeet Kukreja

~एक छोटी सी मुलाकात~

ना जाने क्यूँ इन तन्हाईयों से
कुछ रिश्ता सा लगता है, तेरे बगेर जिंदगी का हर
पल बिछड़ा सा लगता है! कुछ तो रही होगी बात
जो हुई वो छोटी सी मुलाकात,
इस तरह यूँही कोइ भी,
राहगीर नहीं अपना सा लगता है! सोचती हूँ जब भी कि
कैसा वो इतेफाक था,
कि अन्जना सा रास्ता भी,
अब पेह्चना सा लगता है... कभी कभी मिल जाते है 
कुछ लोग इस कदर,
बिछड़ के फिर मिलने 
का अरमान सा लगता है!

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