Why we used to say that there is one GOD, one Soul and we all are reflections?
The physical body is irrelevant, look within yourself. It is the person you see beyond the person that is your actual self. When you find that person, you will ostensibly find GOD and meet inner-self.
In the moment of distress, the approach towards trouble is to plant your feet on ground, look adversity in the eye & deal within it. The art of loving is that do not neglect yourself, If it does not matter to love yourself then it`s hard to matter for others. You, yourself as much anybody in the entire universe deserve your own love and affection. Our complacence makes us happy and it rejuvenates to make others the same.
Can we try once to get rid of petulance and adherent to love yourself?
Yes, if you do so, The success will meet to your feet and plant the seed of happiness with diversity.Love is not placid & passive, But passionate & active. Love is living into the actions of human beings.