Marriage …Marriage…Marriage!!!

Of late, i am jotting down on something which is hot topic among my family and friends these days …of course not with a thought to enjoy the moment of marriage but yes to pull my leg coz I m youngest (I know what my age is….still I m youngest :D) damsel left among my siblings…Huhh and nothing sounds me so irritating more than a word “marriage” tingling me like a mosquito and whispering all the time humm humm.

As I live far from my hometown (just 410kms), I used to give a call daily once or twice.

I added this line because what happens in every call is like firing bullets from a gun – beta….what your plans are? Have you found someone? If so tell the details.
Gosh the same futile questions K and this is not enough whenever my mamma

Says- “beta the aunty who resides next to our home always asked about you  ...so when r u coming home? I murmured! Aunty Ji why do not you look at your own home and daughter who has also grown up because I know why do u always ask Huhh (please let me and my family live aunty Ji)

Well, its not always those aunties even relatives are also common verdicts in such case if a daughter of a family has grown up, well educated and working in one of big corporate giants (I am not sure if  it happens with boys too) they snooze their nose (I meant the same u understood), raised their eyes and all set to disturb my mamma and daddy by their unwanted calls and visits only to show how caring they are.

(Can’t they see me happy alone in my own world?K)

I think people have so much free time to get in to others life rather than staying in their own closed walls and  real life is actually like a facebook that you are least bother about your own wall but more on others update and notifications …:|

So, where was i …..?Ohhh yes hot topic :D

What else….aunties, relatives are still okay but its coin me discomfit when friends and colleagues are also queued up in saying “when are you getting married Jas?” bla bla bla

Ohhh bulls! Why do not you search a suitable partner for me then? And it would only possible when you stop hitting on me (never happens vice versa for boys’ I am sure).

I (or family ) will be the only one who are concerned for my life more than anybody else , I know age and time is not in our hand to hold but just because of that we can not stop living our life the way we wants right!

Ahaan nope, never!

The truth is that i am not waiting for any other Mr. Right but yes the one who is made for me and will meet one day as destiny has already decided for each and every individual …

 (If I am born to be hanged, then I will never be drowned)

(That’s why break ups and divorce happens baki compromise tou life mein krna hi pdta hai)

 Not in mood of ending still, One day i opened my mailbox (gmail, yahoo or hotmail) and a mail subject – “Are you looking for a life partner”? (usually receive from Jeevan saathi, Bharat matrimony type websites) kicked on my head . Goshhhhhhhhhh and the same is happening every other day, I have already filtered those sites but as u know newly intended websites will surely keep disturbing u....even it does not matter for them if you are already a married twosome.

Disheartened! one more plight stirs me up that even mails are also not letting me live happy and single :\ wooooohhhhhhhh

Ammm getting back to aunties, I will be coming home soon but please do not ask those inane questions to me at least ;)

So guys,

Are you too facing the same situations?

I know answer will be “yes”, the same common tale for all 

(A common tale for bachelors/damsels ......Please consider this as a humorous tale , intention was only to penned down real frustration of single being ..........)

With lv

Jasmeet