Apr 5, 2012

Marriage …Marriage…Marriage!!!

Of late, i am jotting down on something which is hot topic among my family and friends these days …of course not with a thought to enjoy the moment of marriage but yes to pull my leg coz I m youngest (I know what my age is….still I m youngest :D) damsel left among my siblings…Huhh and nothing sounds me so irritating more than a word “marriage” tingling me like a mosquito and whispering all the time humm humm.


As I live far from my hometown (just 410kms), I used to give a call daily once or twice.

I added this line because what happens in every call is like firing bullets from a gun – beta….what your plans are? Have you found someone? If so tell the details.
Gosh the same futile questions K and this is not enough whenever my mamma
Says- “beta the aunty who resides next to our home always asked about you  ...so when r u coming home? I murmured! Aunty Ji why do not you look at your own home and daughter who has also grown up because I know why do u always ask Huhh (please let me and my family live aunty Ji)

Well, its not always those aunties even relatives are also common verdicts in such case if a daughter of a family has grown up, well educated and working in one of big corporate giants (I am not sure if  it happens with boys too) they snooze their nose (I meant the same u understood), raised their eyes and all set to disturb my mamma and daddy by their unwanted calls and visits only to show how caring they are.

(Can’t they see me happy alone in my own world?K)


I think people have so much free time to get in to others life rather than staying in their own closed walls and  real life is actually like a facebook that you are least bother about your own wall but more on others update and notifications …:|


So, where was i …..?Ohhh yes hot topic :D


What else….aunties, relatives are still okay but its coin me discomfit when friends and colleagues are also queued up in saying “when are you getting married Jas?” bla bla bla

Ohhh bulls! Why do not you search a suitable partner for me then? And it would only possible when you stop hitting on me (never happens vice versa for boys’ I am sure).

I (or family ) will be the only one who are concerned for my life more than anybody else , I know age and time is not in our hand to hold but just because of that we can not stop living our life the way we wants right!
Ahaan nope, never!

The truth is that i am not waiting for any other Mr. Right but yes the one who is made for me and will meet one day as destiny has already decided for each and every individual …

 (If I am born to be hanged, then I will never be drowned)
(That’s why break ups and divorce happens baki compromise tou life mein krna hi pdta hai)


 Not in mood of ending still, One day i opened my mailbox (gmail, yahoo or hotmail) and a mail subject – “Are you looking for a life partner”? (usually receive from Jeevan saathi, Bharat matrimony type websites) kicked on my head . Goshhhhhhhhhh and the same is happening every other day, I have already filtered those sites but as u know newly intended websites will surely keep disturbing u....even it does not matter for them if you are already a married twosome.
Disheartened! one more plight stirs me up that even mails are also not letting me live happy and single :\ wooooohhhhhhhh

Ammm getting back to aunties, I will be coming home soon but please do not ask those inane questions to me at least ;)


So guys,

Are you too facing the same situations?

I know answer will be “yes”, the same common tale for all 

(A common tale for bachelors/damsels ......Please consider this as a humorous tale , intention was only to penned down real frustration of single being ..........)


With lv
Jasmeet


39 comments:

  1. Aunty Ji...Aunty Ji!!!
    Shut up ..n.. Get Out :|

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  2. Nicely narrated. BTW, this is the best time of your life, so let them ask and you keep them in suspense.

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    1. yeah Mr. Karve ...suspense actually helps :)

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  3. nicely written :)
    and you know what? you cannot block those 'looking for a life partner' mail ids coz they create a new one every hour.

    hey i wanted to read your biker post but got scared and came out.

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    1. thanks deb, well said ....dere is no way in blocking non-stop websites ....
      y scared ? biker post was just the fiction mix reality , i guess u have started reading from part 3 ...

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  4. Yeah yeah, it happens with boys also. I remembered my time when I had to go through all this, though I managed to run away from their net for five full years. Was caught finally.

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    1. ha ha ha...thanks captain for informing that boys are too queued up n seriously m too trying hard to run away as much as i can ...... :D

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    2. Doesn't matter :P, sabka ant ek hi hai LOL

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  5. Here is one who has run successfully all his life:) Still cannot escape the marriage websites' spam though:)

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    1. ya..suresh ji ... got to know by our Inditalk.
      but i am too agreed with Captain ...that sabka ant yahi hai ..and in everyone`s life there comes a saturation time when we need a sharing partner .....

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  6. Nice one..took me back memory lane..yes it does happen with guys..that's the way it has been, since the time of Jane Austen's Pride & Prejudice and will always be irrespective whether you are a girl or a boy...

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    1. Thanks Anupam !
      my motive to share this tale has fulfilled when people says this post reminded their old crunchy time .......

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  7. for aunty jees ,, shadi is only time to wear there expensive sarees... so for that only we are the bali ka bakra ....

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    1. hee hee ...or can say that they want to search a suitable groom for their daughters :P and so eager to attend my marriage LOL

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    2. atleast they don't search suitable bride for their sons... to guy's relief

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    3. naaa .... wrong perception ..its equally for a suitable bride too .... indian marriages truth :D

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  8. What I think is it's a chain of event...as soon as we are done with grads....we are questioned about our career, as soon as career is on the track...we are questioned about marriage, once the marriage fever is over and we are yet to get over that trauma.....ppl start asking about good news, once the new baby comes on the earth....he/she is about to go to school...question about another good news pops up from so called auntis, relatives and now the list of friends and colleagues....

    Never ending story....
    Good post though...I too am going through the same trauma...so i can relate :)

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  9. Thanks Hemant for dropping by and welcome to my blog:)
    well said that it's a chain that has no end and we need to let them in surprise that what is gonna happen next ;)

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  11. I am a punjabi and I understand what u meant ;)

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  12. We girls can write a novel when it comes to the marriage topic right? :P
    Even I'm on the same boat, its an inevitable thing to that'll happen eventually to everyone, whether a guy or a girl. Unfortunate thing is girls get targeted more to succumb to marriage at an early age and that's the thing that really bothers me. Nice post and do have a look at my post to know what I meant :)
    http://nehasjournal.blogspot.in/2012/02/happily-ever-after-crap.html

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    1. thanks Neha for sharing ur views ...ur post is simply awesome. read before i replied here :)

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  13. don't mind but your post depicts the scenario of a typical punjabi family...aunty ji giving a nice punjabi touch too..but a fun to read post.

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    1. @ Avanish wt to say now :P m punjabi by heart and so my words came naturally with punjabi touch :)

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  14. heh heh... use both ears when aunties ask you about shaadi... in out, out the other!

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    1. @Ash : ekjactly i usually do the same hee hee ;)

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  16. Was skimming through your blog and got this ! I think everyone at some point is here....and it's disgusting. Really. Some people don't get it, being single can be way happy, I feel they are just jelo of our wonderful life. Infact I remember someone going to the extent of asking,"Betaji to bf ka kya haal shaal hai". And I was like,"Sorry, I don't really share my personal life, you see it''s so happening and so many relations that I possibly couldn't explain"......I could see the shock. :) Lovely I'll have a post soon on this too

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