Before I go ahead and blow out my feelings today for all those who have a special space in my life...
Wish
you all a Happy Friendship day!
“There
is no validity of friendship and expiry of friends. It has unlimited
plan until you are alive.”
People come
and go and few just left remarks in your life which may remain
unforgettable. Moments you spend either good or worst somehow resides
in your deep memory forever even if you would not show it will always
stay like hidden files on your functional system.
No one is
perfect and every other whom you meet can not be your close one. But
when you meet such people whom you find you are most compatible with
and the ones who never get hesitated to say anything nonsense, becomes
your lifetime friends. Like everybody i too have a list of few gem of
people who are my life's hidden files. I can never ctr+alt+del them
and if i try to, my system may get crash. It hardly matters I meet or call them every other moment, I know they will always be
like bonzers and hunky-dory for me.
I have a
small garden of close friends and in the occasion of friendship day,
I want to dedicate a testimony to all those whom I have shared a
bond of mutual affection.
Vandana
Ahuja: The one who had always
irritated and compelled me to eat karele and sarso ka saag when she
knew I hate both. I do not know how can someone bring green
vegetables daily in lunch. Vanu, my school mate and best pal in my
hometown. She is one of those girls who speaks less and always
smiles. We both were indifferent. I was so talkative and she was
reverse of me. An innocent girl with beautiful eyes. She is a girl
with full of charm and know how to handle all circumstances. We did
not have mobile phones in my school time so every alternate day we
were found in each others home together. What a beautiful old days
when there was small hall of technology and we were actually aware of
how to spend time together without social networking. I changed my
school after some time but we were always in touch. It has been six
years now when last I met in her marriage and she got settled in
different city. She is blessed with a little baby this year and busy
in nurturing her. We, now get time to talk on special occasions and i
am wishing to meet her soon. Karele is now one of my favorite,
really. Two girls who have never fought, never got a jealousy factor and shared a beautiful friendship together.
Atul
Arora and Vishal Jha: I have
completed my schooling in girls intermediate school. The first two
guys I met and enjoyed the good bonding are Atul and Vishal. I met
them in my physics tuition classes (I
was in class10th) .
They used to take care of me like a little baby so that no guy can
tease me. Ahh they both were enough to riled me actually. We had
never roam or partied together like todays school guys and the most
shared chit-chats were related to Physics, Maths and literature
tuition classes. We three were career oriented. Gradually, after
schooling we joined different coaching for IIT preparation and kept
in touch for studies and career aspects. Today, We three are
Engineers and working completely in different domains.
Vishal is a Software engineer , Atul is a Mechanical and I am a
Telecomm professional. We are still in touch with our chit chats and
know everything about each others life. Vishal is happily married and i have a grudge for not being the part of his marriage in my
hometown, only my family has attended. Atul is roaming the world ,
guess in Germany at the moment and poked me with his stupid jokes
every alternate day. Thanks to networking, how can people live
without friends in different country :D.
Vandana
Yadav: Another Vandana, wow how
lucky i am. A girl of her own world, sensitive and full of laughs. We
have completed college together and a bond of 10 years still
continuing because luckily we are working in the same organization
and in a same team. She was a day-scholar in college and I was a
hosteler. The memories of my hostel are unforgettable. Ohh i forgot
to mention my roomies Ruchi Gautam
and PushpamPriya
(Kanpurias). How can i forget them? We are the pals of our good and
bad times, shared hostel room together, belong to the same
city(Kanpur), shared clothes (our
almirah used to be so messy), and
have a great understanding. Ruchi and Pushpam were more close because
they knew each-other from school time but i made a special entry in
their life. We are still in touch. Both are married and well settled.
We met a few times in last 2-3 years but now they are quite busy
nurturing their newly born babies. Vandana and I am almost alike.
The only difference that she is a chart-buster. If you need to
broadcast anything please you may contact her. It is very difficult
for her to keep things inside her tummy and I hate that, really. We
know every single thing about each-other's life . All sort of emotions we
shares and I feel lucky to have her.Sasural gainda ful...is
a perfect song if I have to dedicate her. Heehee, kidding :P
Gaurav
Singh: My life's turning point:
when I met him by-chance in our college. My senior, mentor, a guide
who helped me to come out from my own little shell and a best-pal of
good & bad times. We have shared a great companionship together. He is
a mini google for everyone. A polite, gentle and a decent man i have
ever met. After lot of struggles and hard work he has achieved in his career what he deserves for. Yeah, he may think if he would have been somewhere else how could he be so
lucky to have a friend like me. :D . I feel fortunate too.
Gradually, we become so close friends that i could share any damn
talk with him. He does not know how to be expressive and extrovert which
I always hated. I will always wish the best
in his life and have learned many great lessons of life from him that i might remember till my last breathe.
Swati
Hegde: My Choclaty-Wochlaty,
bubbly friend who is now a fashion blogger too. We were together in
my last company and worked in the same team. I have changed to
another and she left working for higher studies. When the two wants
to keep mutual bonding always, they never get apart. This is what
happened with both of us. The friendship of 5 years, silly Pjs. ups&
down of life, shopping madness and late night Gts, chit-chats seems
to me never ending. I am a girl who does not like to visit friends
places much but i love to go Swati's home in delhi and enjoy her
mommy's made south indian food. Yum. We meet 2-3 times in a month and i wish may this friendship continue for lifetime.
Love
u babes, you know how to overcome my sickness from your senseless pjs :P
Malay
Asthana: A true admirer.
blogger, colleague, poet and a nice human being. We met in an
official trip and when he got to know I am a blogger and i write, he
soon become a great admirer i have known till date. He has a great
talent to write in Hindi and English both. Also, he is the part of my
blog to write hindi poems. We hardly met once or twice in last 2
years because our siting location in office was different but we
always get engage and motivates each-other to write something better next
time. He has moved to another city for higher studies and but yes again thanks to social networking, we will
definitely be in touch to guide each-other.
Anant Rai: Have you ever heard FM show of Anant &Saurabh? He is the same RJAnant who has started this show. He is RJ, Editor, Director and a writer, sometimes become an actor too. It is a long story how i know him (more than 3 years now) but i am thankful to God for adding one of very kind person in my life. He is a gem of person. His voice has a real charm and blessed with charming smile. He can make you laugh so easily that you forget all your troubles for that moment.
He is struggling for his dreams and people who dedicatedly chase their dreams surely reaches the destination, does not matter by what time but they do. I always advice him to never change, remain the same as you are Anant.
Anant Rai: Have you ever heard FM show of Anant &Saurabh? He is the same RJAnant who has started this show. He is RJ, Editor, Director and a writer, sometimes become an actor too. It is a long story how i know him (more than 3 years now) but i am thankful to God for adding one of very kind person in my life. He is a gem of person. His voice has a real charm and blessed with charming smile. He can make you laugh so easily that you forget all your troubles for that moment.
He is struggling for his dreams and people who dedicatedly chase their dreams surely reaches the destination, does not matter by what time but they do. I always advice him to never change, remain the same as you are Anant.
Monika
Kumari: When i feel upset, the
best place for me to sit polite and think, is restroom
(Please do not take it otherwise). And
it happened one day when I met moni. I was sad, almost in tears but
could not bear to show in office hours. I went washroom to make
myself calm and she came with a common friend (Vandana). They both
starred at me and made a flimsy look and started laughing. I could
stare them too but the very next moment i also smiled. This is what
Moni is. She can make you laugh, can take over your stress, suggest
the best thing to do next, the one who loves to booze, know how to
handle situations (if
necessary it does not bother her to use sardonic words),
free of mind and most importantly a girl of firm decisions. I feel
so blessed to find a strong girl. It has been almost 8-9 months we
know each-other. We are so compatible and facing few similar life
challenges. We go for movies (usually
on release date) and
spend weekends together. Indeed i find someone so close these days
when i needed the most.
There
are many more I have in my list and saved memories with them....
Saurabh
(his official nick name is
bakri and a friend in need is a friend indeed) but
the worst part is, he does not know well to talk women and say
anything shit even at public places (I
hate this), so childish. But he is
kind from his heart and a nice person.
One of my good friend
and a colleague (Aj Tak of
my company).
Sharad
and Adwait. We worked together
in same team and they are good human-beings. They are always realy to
help whenever anyone in need. We shared good mutual
understanding professionally.
Bhawna
and Kanika (My
breakfast partners).
I met them during official function preparation and we danced in a
group last year oct. Gradually, we are sharing good bonding and meet almost daily in office.
I
have many new blogger friends and lived cherishable moments in
completely a new society. If i started taking names it may take
another many pages to write about them. I love all my blogger friends
and you all are the reason i am able to write indoctrinations here.
As i mentioned earlier; people come and go and some stay forever in
your hearts by some means.
Today,
I want to apologize also if I've ever hurt any of my friend's feelings and if it has happened was completely unintentional. I can never
be biased but I can not share everything to every other.
Love
you friends!
Amazing post, Jasmeet. Ur such a good friend writing bout ur besties..an ode to friendship.
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Hey Vishal ...thanku so much dear. Wish u too everyday is a frndship day :)
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